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Feminine Energy and the Lost Art of Receiving
What do you prefer, giving or receiving? My sense is that, like most mothers, you prefer giving. When I think of most women, there is often a difficulty in receiving. That moment someone unexpectedly offers to help and your response, without even processing what was offered, is 'no thank you.' This got me thinking about feminine energy and receiving and how we've lost touch with the lost art of receiving in our modern world
Hilary Valentine
Aug 185 min read


Cultivating Intuition: How to Trust Your Innate Maternal Wisdom
Nine years ago, preparing for my first baby, maternal intuition wasn't on my radar. When parenting challenges hit, I dove into every expert resource while my husband simply trusted his ability to show up. This imbalance taught me a crucial lesson: when mothers step away from endless advice to listen to their innate maternal wisdom, they navigate challenges with grace and find deeper peace in their choices.
Hilary Valentine
Aug 104 min read


The Fifth Parenting Style: From Expectations to Authenticity Through Soul Aligned Motherhood
For decades, parenting experts have neatly categorized motherhood into four distinct styles. But what if the most transformative parenting style isn't one you can find in any textbook? What if it's the one that emerges when you stop trying to meet everyone else's expectations and start honoring your innate maternal wisdom? Soul Aligned Motherhood isn't a prescribed style you learn—it's an authentic expression you uncover.
Hilary Valentine
Aug 64 min read


The Productivity Culture Trap: How America’s Obsession is Stealing Our Joy
A wake-up call for moms drowning in the “do more” mentality I had a moment of clarity the other day that stopped me in my tracks. I was...
Hilary Valentine
Jul 264 min read


Choosing Presence Over Productivity
The Movie Night That Changed My Perspective It was just a simple invitation. “Would your girls like to come to movie night?” On the...
Hilary Valentine
Jul 203 min read


When Soul-Aligned Motherhood Doesn't Feel So Aligned
To be perfectly honest, soul-aligned motherhood at times feels less than soul-aligned. I've been really hard on myself lately. The day starts off funky, and by 10am I'm beating myself up for not living up to my expectations. What's different now is when I get in this headspace I immediately recognize this self-sabotage for what it is… not true. Last week I needed to prove to myself that I'm doing a ton and doing pretty damn well.
Hilary Valentine
Jul 133 min read


Soul-Aligned Motherhood: Why True Self-Care Can't Be Bought
The self-care industry had me convinced that wellness came with a price tag. But the most transformative self-care I've ever experienced? It was free. It was finally listening to my body when it said "rest" instead of pushing through. It was setting boundaries instead of people-pleasing. Radical self-care isn't about what you add—it's about what you subtract. The guilt. The shoulds. You don't need another product, mama. You need to remember who you are.
Hilary Valentine
Jul 73 min read


My Midlife Transformation: From 36 to 42 - A Journey to Authentic Living
They say life begins at 40, but for me, authentic living began at 36 when everything I thought I knew about myself started unraveling. Six birthdays later, I'm sharing the story of my midlife transformation—from living others' expectations to creating my own path as a soul-aligned mother. These six years brought profound loss, career changes, and ultimately discovering the courage to live authentically. Now at 42, my motivation comes from within
Hilary Valentine
Jun 284 min read


Healthy Water is Everything: Finding the Perfect Filtration System
Clean, healthy water shouldn't be a luxury—it should be a given. Yet if you've done any research on tap water quality, you know that what...
Hilary Valentine
Jun 234 min read


Digital Overwhelm: Why Technology Creates the Same Exhaustion as Big Cities
I remember as a kid getting so excited when my mom would announce that we would be going into Boston for the day. I found the city to be...
Hilary Valentine
Jun 155 min read


Finding Soul-Aligned Motherhood: From Island Life to RV Life - A Mom's Journey to Authentic Living
Life's Looking Really Different Lately: Our Transition from Hawaii to Full-Time RV Living From Island Life to RV Life - A Soul-Aligned...
Hilary Valentine
Jun 92 min read


Embracing Cozy Winter Living: 5 Simple Joys After Moving from Hawaii
Discover the simple joys of cozy winter living after moving from Hawaii to the mainland. From warm slippers to fireside yoga, find...
Hilary Valentine
Feb 63 min read


Full Time RV Life: Our First Month Top 5 Things I'm Already Loving
This blog post details Hilary's first month of full-time fifth wheel RV living, where initial concerns became unexpected benefits after transitioning from a 600-square-foot apartment.
She identifies five key advantages: innovative storage solutions with built-in cabinets and smart organization that exceeded their previous single-closet setup; intentional tiny-home design with efficient layouts supporting daily routines; natural connection through abundant light, wildlife enco
Hilary Valentine
Jan 202 min read


Empowering Women: A Naturopath's Approach to Natural PMS Treatment and Hormonal Health
After struggling with severe PMS symptoms and hormonal imbalances, I turned to a naturopath for support. Despite normal lab results, she recommended a B-complex, Chaste Tree Berry, and later Cortisol Manager—leading to a dramatic improvement in my mood, energy, and overall well-being. This experience showed me the value of expert, personalized care in naturopathic medicine and transformed how I approach my health.
Hilary Valentine
Jan 135 min read


Child-Led Hikes: A Mindful Parenting Practice Worth Trying
During a child-led nature walk with Forest Families, I discovered the power of slowing down and letting my kids lead. Initially frustrated by the slow pace, I watched my daughters struggle to settle into unstructured play—until they finally did. By releasing my own discomfort, I witnessed their joy, creativity, and connection to nature blossom. This experience reminded me that our energy shapes our children’s—and that magic happens when we let them explore at their own pace.
Hilary Valentine
Jan 63 min read


7 Life Changing Lessons at 40: A Midlife Reflection on Growth and Authenticity
As I step deeper into midlife, I find myself drawn to reflection rather than traditional celebrations. This year brought profound insights about living authentically—from embracing my multi-passionate nature to discovering cycle syncing and breaking free from people pleasing. These 7 life lessons at 40 have shaped my journey toward deeper purpose and genuine fulfillment. Here's what I've learned about courage, boundaries, and following your hea
Hilary Valentine
Jun 28, 20244 min read
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